1st rule

i used to ponder when is my turn to get 21 year old when seeing my elder sisters reach their so called "key-receiving" age in the past.

so in year 2012, it is my turn.

i dont think i care about those keys and whatsoever, the number seemed abit too big in value for me. =D

they taught us to be non-judgmental.

never judge one's capability from the way of talking, walking, wearing and behaving.

i could type this out, but im trying hard to practice this out

how many of us could actually be non-judgmental when meeting new people,

you may be impressed by the way one stands and when he/she is being covered up with those fabulous stuffs that imply "high class" in the hierarchy of our society;

at the same time, you are discouraged to delegate an important presentation to your colleague who could not speak loudly in daily conversation.

these scenarios happen frequently, and all are against the principle of non-judgmental-ism.

p.s: 他们说这再也不是玩玩的年头，该定下心，确定目标， 大步大步地往前走。

it is not that im being choosy and indecisive, im just equipping myself to have choose-able characteristics when im the choosing at the same time.

uncertainty and prediction are always contradict yet both are undesirable.

btY